my boyfrined and i have been together for about a year now and were bothing ready for sex. we had this talk a while ago and decided that we werent gonna do anything until after my quince in february. about a month after i turned 15 i decided to talk to my mom about birthcontrol. she led me on to think that when i was ready i could talk to her about it and she would help me make the right choice and get me what i needed. after talking to my boyfriend about it and my tia and tio, they all said the same thing. just go for it. well.. we were all wrong about that. my mom flipped. she said i was 14 a month ago and all this other stuff about it. she even made me tell my dad! then he flipped and i got the same lecture all over again. they made me feel so ashamed for thinking about it. they were talking like if i were already pregnant. i thought i could come to my mom for this and now i dont think ill ever be able to again cause ill always feel to scared. i know she was just trying to protect me cause she didnt want me to end up like her when she was 15, a teen mom. its been a few months now and my boyfriend is tired of everyone telling us what to do. i cant stand it either. he said we should just do it and not care what they think or do anymore. im with him on that but part of me is still really scared. i dont want to lose my parents trust again but yet i want to have sex with my boyfriend! and my mom reminds me all the time that i think im ready for that and im not. im more ready than she thinks. i dont know what to do anymore and everyone i go to doesnt seem to help. is there anyone who can give me good advice?