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I was an Infantry Squad Leader with the US Military in Fallujah Iraq. Here I write about my thoughts and reflections on the war, and what young Americans can do to support the troops.

 
 
 
 
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Fighting the Good Fight
Posted March 25, 2008 at 11:21 AM

I am always reluctant to claim my disability it is a slippery slope. While on patrol in Fallujah, in 2004, my convoy was attacked by insurgents. The very first rocket fired landed at my feet, but it was certainly not the last. My left leg was blown off above the knee, my right leg looked like chopped liver, my lung was punctured, and I said to myself, “if I die here, my mamma will kill me.” I was lying on the ground, seemingly paralyzed as I could not feel or move anything below my waist, for the shrapnel that pierced my body armor was only a couple millimeters from my spine. All I remember is all hell breaking loose and the terrible sounds of grown men screaming. At last, my moment of reckoning had arrived.
            I woke up nine days later, at National Naval Medical Center, hooked to machines and contraptions I never knew existed. I was hallucinating and scared and feeling like I was still fighting for my life, and I was. As my parents stood over me in the intensive care room next to the room of the late Chief Justice Rehnquist, assuring me that everything was alright, I realized that I had made it home. What took me time to grasp, however, was that my battle had just begun. This was the beginning of the hardest two years of my life.
            I spent the next 22 months undergoing 42 surgeries to save my right leg, but the eventual removal of my right knee, gallons of high-powered intravenous antibiotics, hundreds of sleepless nights, and thousands of arduous hours of physical and occupational therapy, in order to learn to walk all over again and ultimately transition back into society; but let me assure you that I have never complained about that day in Iraq. As an all too familiar face around NNMC and Walter Reed, I began to realize from my bedside, however, that the men and women with whom I fought in the “War on Terror” are truly heroes, and they deserve to be treated better. And this is where the “Walter Reed Story” began, and most importantly where I realized my purpose to advocate for those who risked, and gave, everything for their country and family.

            I could tell you about how difficult it has been for me to transition back into society, in a place like Georgetown University, or how much it hurts to walk from class to class or to sit in an uncomfortable chair in the library long enough to get any meaningful work done, but I won’t. The fact is that there are not many severely wounded service-members who would ever think of applying to Georgetown Law, which is symbolic of the larger picture. Nevertheless, I am always reluctant to discuss my disability because of those warriors who did not make it home, and because of those wounded warriors who are much worse off than me, and because of those who feel like society thinks they are crazy. I would rather you know that I am still fighting the good fight, and that I, as much as anyone, will make the most of my opportunities.


 
 
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captainron 170 days ago

Hi Ryan,  We were watching you on MTV tonight Choose or lose, it was great to see you so doing well! Since your injury we have kept you in our prayers, and in touch with your father here at home in Ravenna, (Giant Eagle) We appreciate all that you have given for our freedoms and hope that you and the others on the panel realize that your service does not go unnoticed. We are very proud of your choices and look forward to seeing you in the future-  our family has moved away from home but have inquired of you and your progress, Lee still remembers playing ball together and growing up with sports in the area. Take care and good luck with school if you need anything just get in touch.  Ron and Patty Daniels and Family

ChrisWeimer 166 days ago

Thats powerful bro.  Whenever I meet someone like you I start to wonder why Marines are so much better at handing adversity then most.  I came to the conclusion its because we knew why we joined and we believed in what we and our bros. are doing.  Your strength is inspirational.  Ok enough with the reach arounds when we all gonna get together and get twisted?