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Why do I
Posted February 19, 2008 at 1:12 PM

Hey all i just have something i really need to get off my chest and get peoples opinions on. My boyfriend and i have been together for five months. During that time we have had sex once in december. That wasnt my first time and it wasnt bad. But since then we have been hanging out at his place(he still lives with his parents by the way) and we will get into things and he will ask if i want to have sex again. And for some reason i have said no twice. But i really have no idea why. I really love him alot and he means everything to me. I dont understand why i am doing this and im afraid if i dont change then he  will eventually break up with me. So can you guys help me and give me possible reasons on why im doing this? Im so confused and im reaching out to yall for help!! Thanks so much 


 
 
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Lovinggggglifee 646 days ago

Me and my boyfriend have been together for almost 8months this time around. we dated for a lil over 3 months the first time. We had sex right off jump street the first time.BIG MISTAKE! If you dont want to have sex with him you dont have to. Tell him you dont feel like sex should run yalls relationship. and if he says thats okay he understands then that shows maturaty and that he is ready for "adult" relationship. I think that just because you love someone doesnt mean that yall HAVE to have sex just because yall are alone or messing around. You just stand your ground. Do what you feel is right. and if he leaves then he wasnt worth it. then that shows you what he really wanted. that sounds bad but ive been used and abused and i wish i would have set my life straight sooner. I did my deeds but now almost a year later I'm paying for it big time. But if yall do decide to have sex be safe.