Blog: AngieVitanza
 
 
See all of AngieVitanza's blog posts
When are you REALLY ready?
Posted January 09, 2008 at 3:58 AM

Parents are always telling their children, you shouldn't have sex until you're older; but is it really about the age? How old do you have to be? Should it should be about age and having to wait? Or is it something that should happen when one is ready to offer the most important gift they can ever give, and only give once. Ulitimately it is up to you, you and ONLY you. No one can tell you that you're ready, except your self.

How do you know when you're ready?

true love, commitment, and being willing to deal with the possible consequences.


 
 
Rate This
1 Ratings
Take Action On
 
 
Tags: sex   maturity   abstinense
Views: 164    Favorited: 2
URL:
 
 
Comments(7)
Post a Comment
Bushwick14 683 days ago

Well it is hard 2 explain this, but u would have 2 ask God if it is time 2 give ur most important gift up. I KNO WE ALL HAVE FEELINGS 2 HAVE SEX SOMETIMES, BUT THE WORLD DON'T KNO WHEN 2 SLOW DOWN AIDS,HIV AND STDS. THEY ARE NOTHING 2 PLAY WIT IT CAN HURT U PHYSICALLY, MENTALLY AND SOCIALLY..... SO THINK BEFORE U ACT.

hugharv4me 680 days ago

I think that sex is very serious, but if you believe you are ready then go for it. Mistakes only make us better. All you can do is try something and if it is wrong or turns out wrong in the end then hopefully you learn to either not do it again or choose wisely next time. Parents are always trying to say that things, like sex, are bad for you. But in reality everyone is going to do it and wheather how low parents make you feel about trying it, in the end it will be ur choice on what you do and when you attempt it. -mysha

tiffany_rules 674 days ago

no sex is not about an age but if u do decide to have sex at a young age then please ask yourself these questions!!! in 10 years do u see youself wit this person??? do u trust this person enough to believe that your the olny one their having sex wit????? and are you truly ready for all the stuff that comes with sex?? if the answers to all these questions are yes then go for it if their not then maybe you need to rethink !! juss always remember protection is a must !!!

puppy29 408 days ago

it is not hard to explain.. the hard part is tellin your mom or dad.... but i only started having sex about 3or 4 months ago.... and it was with my boyfriend of 4 years and i had that feeling that he is just not the one.. but he was i mean he never asked me to have sex.. and that made me feel better so i would say that you are ready when you say so,, it is up to you....

Gracyb 385 days ago

So this guy wants to have sex but idk? if i should...

 


He aint my boyfriend and he will never be b/c he is a player..


Im 16 he is 19.


I like him a lot but I know thats all he wants from me. If i do him he got what he wanted and will leave me and if I dont he will leave me. what should i do?

glam05 326 days ago

I agree sometimes i feel i'm ready but in reality i'm just not i want my first time to be special all around and i'm waiting until marriage

denae6 321 days ago

I think its up to if you feel that you are ready, we all should be waiting until marriage but apparently, thats not happening...I personally wanted to wait until marriage but it jus doesn't see like its gonna happen. Some cons on having sex with age may be an age TOO young..but its if you feel that you are ready and knowing that you wouldnt have no regrets about what you did..