Last Thursday was a slow day. I felt under the weather and needed something to perk me up. So I logged in and scrolled through my new messages.
“Subject: Did you see?...”
Ah, a message from my cousin Zach. Two years younger, he’s a slice of happiness in every interaction we have. I even feel it his e-mails. So with this discovery, a smile appeared on my face and my eyes leapt to the body of his e-mail.
“The Supreme Court overturned the gay marriage ban!!!”
And just like that, my slice of happiness expanded into the whole pie.
Gay Marriage is Legalized in California
Is not allowingallpeople in committed relationships, not just the straight ones, a right to marriage, as bad as telling two people they can’t be together based on the color of their skin?
This is big, I thought.Especially right now, as our country evaluates its character through a careful lens, during a divisive election, during a divisive year, in the cradle of a turbulent world. Especially right now, as talk of political change, bipartisan compromise and dissatisfaction with the same old politics dominates a youth-centric election season.
Whilethe celebration spread last Thursday in LGBT communities in D.C. and across the country, groups like theCampaign for California Families and theMarriage Law Foundation set up campaigns to challenge the ruling. As I learned, if these groups collect roughly 694,000 “legitimate” signatures (out of the 1.1 million they’ve already collected), Chief Justice George’s ruling might have to take a back seat to the sentiment of the voters, whatever way it may swing, this November.
While each side settles in with the new law, gay and lesbian couples are racing to the California alter, much like a similar rulingin 2004 allowed (which was actually overturned by voters in the 2004 election) to define the meaning of a modern family. .
Why Should You Care?
With most of my reporting, I always try to come at it from the perspective of, “Why Should You Care?” If you read enough of my posts, it’s likely you’ll see what I mean. I’m obsessed with the potential in all of us young people – to practice civic engagement, regardless of what ballot or party each of us support. As long as we are exercising our rights, I’m satisfied. So when it came to this topic, marriage rights for gay couples, I had to ask, “Why ShouldYouCare? Why ShouldICare?”
Before I started my MTV gig, I came across an article in DC’s local LGBT newspaper,Washington Blade. It was called “Gay Rights 101” and taught me a few things I never knew. As this seems an appropriate time, I want to share what I learned. Though not all have to do with marriage, they touch on a side of discrimination LGBT people face that people might not always get consideration. While this ruling may seem distant from the stump speeches and campaign stops, there’s no doubt the candidate’s will be asked where they stand on this issue. So know where you do too.
So California, where you go, will too, the rest of the nation?