i have a bit of a problem, i met the love of my life last year..she's 8 yrs younger than me and she comes from a family that is very traditional..she is mexican..so am i..but a little different.when i met her parents my fiancee mentioned that her dad is really strict and very hard to please, i did what i always do when i met him and that was be myself..my fiancee was all about that. well to say the least i won him and her mom over when i popped the question and asked for her hand in marriage.time has gone by and this december we were scheduled to get married, well her family was the one making all the arrangments and was takin care of the costs.needless to say i helped out by giving them 2 thousand dollars toward it.a week ago to this day my fiancee who is 20 yrs old was asked to leave for the day from the salon she is a stylist at because her dad needed some fileing and some hours calculated for his workers at the construction company he works for, so she did.later that same night she was finished with all the paper work she was supposed to help with and was ready to go home..not so fast said her dad..and made her watch over his workers at this site and had her running up and down for materials for the job.she was so tired of bein there and made comments to him that she didnt go to cosmotology school to run material to construction sites and be doin all of his work, so they took away her car and she was stuck there about an hour away from her house where she lives with her parents.so since then she has been working for him there and never went back to the salon..she is so tired of doin what he should be doin..and on top of that he is making her stay in this 5 bedroom condo that she stays in one room while 4 other rooms in the same condo houses 5 guys per room.this makes me a little pissed off that her dad would put his own daughter at risk like that..i know how guys that do construction are. i mean i have been a forman in companies like that and the men that work there almost all of them are illegals and have a one mindthought process..thats younge girls.! she doesnt wanna keep workin there any longer and wants to leave...she has been playin by his rules all her life and now she is faced with a choice that she is gonna have to make in a couple of days...leave with my family till i arrive in december from iraq or keep putting up with her parents that all they care about is themselves. the wedding is off now..her parents think im the bad influence in her life and they dont want her to marry me..so they called off the wedding.what do you all think i should do and what kinda advice can anyone give me in this situation?? please respond!

I have a problem. It's really freaking me out! I lost my innocence about a week ago. My partner and I used a condom. We had sex again 2 days later. We used a condom again, but it seemed alot rougher. Is this bad? Should I be scared that I am going to get pregnant even though a condom was used? If someone could please help me, because this is all I can think about. I can't get pregnant, i can't do that to myself, my partner, or my family. HELP! i am really confused

Well, knowing it was your first time im sure you guys wanted to be gentle, and not hurt eachother.
Rough sex doesn't mean anything, it's what your own preference is. And I assure you, the condom won't break just because of rough sex.