Your best bet would probably be to go to your local courthouse and register to vote in person. You will then get the card in the mail. They have made thousands of mistakes and not allowed people to vote because of them and they don't fix that vote so I wouldn't expect them to.

or you can also try to email your local government. when I registered my stuff took quit some time to show up as well. I don't know how things run where you live but here in Seattle, WA you usually don't know anything about weather your voteing stuff went through untill your first ballot shows up in the mail. But then again I'm an absentee voter who also has a voter's registration card which makes me eligable to vote outside the mailbox.