Dustin, this guy Drew doesn't care about you or your recovery, you need to stay as far as you can from him and from people like him... You are a very attractive guy and theres more in life than waiting for this person to change his life...! Stick around and you'll see...! Don't do anything stupid, be honest to yourself, when choosing a partner use precaution by waiting a little longer before moving together...! Sorry if i sounded like preaching...lol, i feel like i'm talking to myself too...!